Ages and Stages: Fourth
Grade
Brought to you by the American School Counselor Association
Is your nine-year-old on track? Below are some
general development milestones to help you understand your child's progress
over the school year. Keep in mind that every child is different and may not
fit perfectly into this framework.
Where They Are
Nine is a time of general confusion for kids. Nine-year-olds:
- Want to put some distance between themselves and adults, and may
rebel against authority.
- Need to be part of a group.
- Seek independence.
- Possess a high activity level.
- Can express a wide range of emotions and verbalize easily.
- Can empathize.
- Can think independently and critically, but are tied to peer
standards.
- Begin to increase their sense of truthfulness.
- Are typically not self-confident.
Where They're Going
School isn't just academics. Your child's teachers are also helping her grow
socially. At nine-years-old, your child is learning how to make decisions and
set standards. You can help by encouraging your child as she:
- Begins making decisions.
- Gains a greater sense of responsibility.
- Sets personal standards.
- Develops personal interests and abilities.
- Develops social skills.
- Learns to engage in group decision-making.