Here are a few of my favorite books: "What We Cant Tell You" (teenagers talk to the adults in their lives) by Kathleen Cushman http://www.amazon.com
"The Blessings of a Skinned Knee: Using Jewish Teachings to Raise Self- Reliant Children" by Wendy Mogel http://www.amazon.com
"How to Talk so Kids Can Learn" by Adele Faber & Elaine Mazlish http://www.amazon.com
"Teenagers Preparing for the Real World" "Financial Literacy for Teens" both by Chad Foster http://www.amazon.com
"Damage" by A.M. Jenkins Great book on adolescent depression. From the point of view of a highschool football player.
"Speak" by Laurie Halse Anderson The story of a 9th grade outcast. Excellent read.