Parents frequently ask me if their child should receive counseling outside
the school setting. This is a complicated and difficult question. The
answer depends on the particular child, presenting problem, and the
frequency and intensity of the problem. Generally, if a child is feeling
comfortable at school and coping with school academics, this is a good sign
that they are able to fit into the school environment. However, if a child
is experiencing difficulties at home or in the community, if family members
and/or their child are feeling extremely stressed, it can be very helpful
and useful for the parents to seek outside assistance. The first step would
be to check the family's health insurance coverage to see what providers are
listed and what the cost will be for the sessions. Sometimes, Employee
Assistance Programs through parents' employers offer free services and/or
information and referral. Du Page County has a mental health division that
can offer services on a sliding scale to families in Du Page County. Their
phone number is 630-627-1700. Also, Bloomingdale Township providers
services, although there may be a wait list there. Their phone number is
630-893-6685.
