There are many ways to let the counselor know that you want to see her. You can write her a note and have the teacher put it in her mailbox. You can also tell your teacher or you can tell the counselor that you would like to speak with her when you see her in the lunchroom or in your classroom.
What you talk to the counselor about is confidential. That means the counselor does not tell anyone. However, it is not a secret, the student can tell whoever they wish. There are two situations in which the counselor would not be able to keep the conversation confidential. If the child's safety is in question or the safety of someone else is in question.