Frequently Asked Questions
- When should I keep my child home from school?
- My child has a cough. Can you give him 2 teaspoons of Robittussin?
- Can you give my child the medication she needs every day at school?
- How can I help you take care of my child who has asthma?
- What if my child is sick and cannot come to school?
- What kinds of snacks should I send in for my child?
- My child is in a classroom with another student who has a severe milk allergy. Can my child have Goldfish crackers for a snack?
- My child's classroom is peanut free/ tree nut free. If I tell my child not to share it, can they still eat something with peanuts or peanut butter in it for a snack?
- What can I do at home to help my child succeed in school?
- What can I do at home to strengthen my child's immune system?
- What should I do if I am concerned about the content in Family Life?
- Why do you like Raggedy Ann so much?
- Why do you like the Mets more than the Yankees?
When should I keep my child home from school?
Keep your child home from school if they have a fever of 100.0F or 37.8C or
higher. They should remain home from school until they are fever free for
24 hours without taking any fever reducing medication. Contact your
pediatrician if the fever lasts for more than 24 hours.
Keep them home if they have vomitted the night before and are still nauseous
the morning of school. Keep them home for any stomach cramping accompanied
by diarrhea. These symptoms can indicate a contagious stomach ailment.
Keep them home if their nose is dripping excessively or if they are coughing
persistently. Students trying to cope with these symptoms during school
have a very difficult time trying to pay attention and would really benefit
from rest at home with lots of liquids and chicken soup.
If your child had a positive strep test from your pediatrician, keep them
home until they have taken the antibiotic for at least 24 hours. This
ensures that they will not be contagious when they return to school.
My child has a cough. Can you give him 2 teaspoons of Robittussin?
According to NJ state law, I cannot give any medications to any student
without written directions from your pediatrician or doctor, and written
permission from you. This includes over the counter medications such as
Tylenol, Tums, Visine, Robittussin, Sudofed, and Motrin.
I would love to give your child medication to help them feel better during
school, but I need proper documentation. District forms are available in
the Health Office. Basically, I need written directions from your
pediatrician with the name of the medication, the exact dose and the
frequency. I also need a note from you stating that you are granting me
permission to medicate your child while at school. I also need the
medication from you in its original container and with a valid expiration
date.
Can you give my child the medication she needs every day at school?
Absolutely! I'll make sure your child gets the medication they need every
day. I just need for you and the requesting doctor to complete both sides
of the school district's medication administration form HD21. This form can
be picked up in my office, or sent home with your son or daughter. Then I
need for you to bring in the medication in its original container or in the
bottle from the pharmacy. A valid expiration date is required.
How can I help you take care of my child who has asthma?
Make sure that the doctor who is managing your child's asthma correctly
fills out an Asthma Action Plan* and fills out the district's medication
administration form HD21*. Make sure you fill out your portion of form
HD21*. Please make sure the school has every medication necessary in its
original packaging and all nebulizer tubing and equipment necessary. I have
a nebulizer in the office, so your child need not bring their own.
*Forms available in the health office.
What if my child is sick and cannot come to school?
If your child is too sick to be in school, please call the main office at
(732)613-6820 and report the absence. Please let us know what is wrong so
that we can track what kinds of communicable illnesses are in school. If
you suspect that your child will be absent for more than 3 days, please get
a note from the doctor stating that your child was ill and that she/he may
return to school.
What kinds of snacks should I send in for my child?
If your child's teacher allows students to have a snack during the school
day, consider sending apple slices, pretzels, grapes, raisins, graham
crackers, crackers, or baby carrots. Try to avoid sending candy, sugary
snacks, snacks that contain nuts or peanut products, or commercial
dehydrated fruit peels.
My child is in a classroom with another student who has a severe milk allergy. Can my child have Goldfish crackers for a snack?
Yes! Your child may enjoy snacks that have milk and milk protiens in them.
Please understand that students are not allowed to share snacks and all
students must wash their hands sometime before snack and then right after
snack. Please do not send in snacks that may spill or splash such as cottage
cheese, Go-Gurt, and creamy salad dressings.
My child's classroom is peanut free/ tree nut free. If I tell my child not to share it, can they still eat something with peanuts or peanut butter in it for a snack?
The rationale for peanut- and nut-free classrooms and schools has to do with
the somewhat unique nature of these allergies. Most people with food allergies
-- even severe allergies -- can manage their allergies by simply not eating
foods that have their allergens in them. They read labels, don't eat food if
they don't know its origins, and ask questions to stay aware of
cross-contamination.
People with peanut and tree nut allergies follow these steps as well, but
there are two limits to this approach. First, it's possible for people with
these two allergies to react to traces of nut dust in the air (from peanut
shells, for example). Second, nuts are full of natural oils that leave
residues. While these residues can be removed with common household cleaners,
it can be difficult or impossible to clean tables mid-morning, for example, or
for school cleaning staff to know to clean oils off of tainted walls or
doorknobs during the school day.
Because of these issues, and because peanut and tree nut allergies can be
life-threatening, that is why your child's classroom is a peanut/tree nut free
zone. Please read the labels and please do not send in a snack that has peanut
butter or tree nuts listed as ingredients. Peanuts, cashews, walnuts, pecans,
pistachios, almonds and hazelnuts could make another child in your son or
daughter's classroom very very sick.
What can I do at home to help my child succeed in school?
The most important things to help your child succeed in school is to make
sure they get plenty of rest, eat a well balanced diet that includes
breakfast and have an orangized study area.
What can I do at home to strengthen my child's immune system?
Make sure your child washes their hands frequently and correctly, dresses
appropriately for the weather, gets adequate rest and eats a well balanced
diet that includes breakfast.
What should I do if I am concerned about the content in Family Life?
If you have any questions or concerns about anything, please never hesitate
to contact me. We can set up an appointment in person or by phone to
discuss what is on your mind.
Why do you like Raggedy Ann so much?
I grew up in the 70s with 5 brothers and no sisters. While I love my
brothers very much, they were never very willing to attend any backyard tea
parties or watch any of Barbie's fashion shows. Raggedy Ann always seemed
happy to be there -- kind of like the sister I never had. She was always
happy. She smiled when she lost an eye, she smiled when her arm fell off.
She smiled as I stitched up the hole in her foot. She even smiled when my
brothers snatched her away and tossed her like a football in the backyard.
As time went on, I came to see Raggedy Ann not so much as the beloved toy
that she was to me, but more as a symbol of optimism and hope. No matter
how awful things seem, no matter how desperate the situation, there is
always a bright side -- something to smile about. And, if there is
something to smile about, then there is always hope for better.
Why do you like the Mets more than the Yankees?
It's been so hard to be a Mets fan lately! But unlike the Yankees, the Mets
don't have a constant pressure to win every
game. The best part about watching the Mets play is that most times, you
don't know who is going to win the game until the very last pitch is
thrown. Sometimes they break your heart, but most times it ends well.